When you hear these 2 words “attractive people” what comes to mind? If you’re like me right away their beautiful physical looks come to mind. When I was asked to write a blog about attractive people I thought what!? But then I read a little more into the concept of what they were talking about. The word attractive means to
(of a thing) pleasing or appealing to the senses.
“an attractive home”
(of a person) appealing to look at; sexually alluring.
“an attractive, charismatic man”
Similar: good-looking, nice-looking, beautiful, pretty, as pretty as a picture, handsome, lovely, gorgeous, captivating, irresistible, sexy, sexually attractive, alluring, desirable, sensual.
My avenue of thought is geared towards being attractive for Jesus’ sake. People whose efforts present Jesus to the world through their lives.
Attract to make others want to be near you or around you because of your life. God designed in the animal Kingdom pheromones that attract the opposite sex. We mimic those with perfumes and body washes and fragrance and things that attract by smell. Hollywood attracts its audience with movie trailers and advertisements for what they created, teasers to make us want to see the movie. In health, does the person that is physically fit, seemingly happy, and tan, attract you to the gym or the diet table to become fit? Or is it the one who holds up the pants that used to be 10 sizes bigger than they are now, and they stand victorious over what once held them captive?
Which makes them more attractive?
So let’s turn this thought process towards Christians. What do Christians do to make themselves attractive to draw people to what they believe? It’s odd that this subject came up for me at the time that it did, my friend and I were talking about who the most attractive people were in our lives and the lives of our friends when we were not Christ-followers by action. We believed but were not living the life. I was really surprised to hear both of us answer the same thing. Ready, drumroll…
It was the Mormon church and its members who seemingly came to the rescue and were there to be the shoulder to cry on. It was them that paid the bills and put our friends up in a house, and then came to check on us or our friends. Or came to visit and nurture a battered wife whom they didn’t know. It was them that offered to go buy my groceries when my back was out or when I was down. The Mormon visitors offered to do my laundry or mow the grass, and they were complete strangers off the street-very beautiful, very attractive I must say. They were amazing until it turned to conversations about faith and our differing views of who Jesus is. I must say though they changed my view of how to treat Mankind.
Clearly now in my life, the Christians I know do these things for people, they just never did them for me when I was unsettled about my faith. I’ve known a lot of people who went the opposite direction when I was in need, they didn’t want to get involved in the things that were messy or painful, or unpleasant, or that would cost them something and that sent me a terrible message. I learned through applying the directions in the Word of God to my life that I loved mankind better and better. And it gained me an audience with them because of it.
Let’s look at what Jesus did when he saw the unpleasant messy painful circumstances of people’s lives. Well He fed them, He presented to them hope, He told them the truth, he comforted them with words and with touch, He didn’t turn the children away even when the disciples said to send them away. He didn’t turn away the people that were crying out even when the disciple said tell them to be quiet.
He spent time with them like the woman at the well, you know the one that was there at noon so she didn’t have to see the other women who were there early in the morning? He stayed three days in her city with her and her family as a guest. What do you suppose he did and said for those three days? We’re not told. He took his entourage of men some 30 miles away from home, further than most of them had ever been, to visit a woman who was not a Jew (the dog) and listened to her cries and then healed her daughter from the demon that possessed her. What he also did was acknowledge and upheld her faith by his listening to her outcry.
He called out to Zacheus an undesirable Jewish man who was a tax collector and was disliked by the populous, that he wanted to come spend time in his house with him despite the popular vote. And when he could not do it himself, he sent others in his name to accomplish the tasks and support the people.
Jesus was devoted to the temple. He went there to worship God and to teach and when he went to other cities he visited their synagogues while he was there. He devoted 3 years to 12 men and he was noted for having the practice of getting away to be with God and spend time alone with him. He gave instruction on how to live life and not sin, how to please God and rely on him. He would tell them things like:
“Ask and it will be given to you; seek and you will find; knock and the door will be opened to you. For everyone who asks receives; the one who seeks finds; and to the one who knocks, the door will be opened. “Which of you, if your son asks for bread, will give him a stone? Or if he asks for a fish, will give him a snake? If you, then, though you are evil, know how to give good gifts to your children, how much more will your Father in heaven give good gifts to those who ask him! So in everything, do to others what you would have them do to you, for this sums up the Law and the Prophets.
Matthew 7:7-12 NIV
So what do you consider to be attractive beautiful people?
Are you yourself part of that group?
Or are you left wanting to be the receiver of beautiful attractive people who will come love on you?
So many questions, right?
I guess the bottom line is …If we live by example as we are called to do, then I must say who we are using as our example matters greatly. We don’t want to be fake but authentic in our outward appearance because of the work done on the inward parts of our lives.
The Saints of the Bible and those who used them as examples to test and approve their lives is a great place to start looking at how to become more attractive people for Jesus.
-Written by Wayne Clinton